Well, my first day, Tuesday, with the grandladies golf was less than sterling...the ladies were nice ( i did get scolded once for " not being ready to hit" ...when actually, I had driven ahead of her  to hit and apologized to HER).  I was cold, hit erratically and was grateful to be finished!!!!.  Then I didn't play great tennis Wednesday ( glad it was not my rating day !)   Today I played better golf with Tom and took a lesson with Cassidy..." Keep my wrists cocked as long as I can and TURN my hips to let my arms swing in front and around".  We are signed up for an event Saturday evening and will go to music in the plaza tomorrow...organizing golf for the next two weeks